FAQs

What is family mediation?

Family mediation helps separating or separated couples discuss and work through arrangements for their children, finances or both. An impartial mediator supports you to explore options and work towards agreements that are right for your family.

What is a MIAM?

A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is a private meeting with a mediator. It gives you an opportunity to discuss your situation, understand how mediation works and consider whether mediation is suitable for you. 

Do I have to attend a mediation? Mediation is a voluntary process, so you cannot be forced to mediate. However, in many cases you will need to attend a MIAM before making an application to the family court, unless an exemption applies.

What happens if my ex-partner doesn't want to mediate? Both people need to be willing to take part for mediation to go ahead. If the other person does not wish to mediate, we can discuss your next steps with you, including whether you require a MIAM certificate.

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What can we discuss in mediation?

You can discuss arrangements for your children, finances following separation, or both. This can include where children will live and the time they spend with each parent, the family home, mortgages, savings, pensions, debts and ongoing financial arrangements.

Do I have to be in the same room as my ex-partner? Not necessarily. Where appropriate, mediation can take place using shuttle mediation, where you each have a separate online meeting room and the mediator moves between you. You will not see or hear the other person.

Is mediation confidential? Yes. Mediation is a private and confidential process, subject to limited exceptions which your mediator will explain to you. This allows you both to explore options openly before deciding what works for you.

Is an agreement reached in mediation legally binding?

Agreements reached in mediation are not automatically legally binding. Where appropriate, you can take legal advice and ask a solicitor to turn your proposals into a legally binding agreement or court order.

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How much does mediation cost?

A MIAM costs £135 per person. Joint mediation sessions are usually 90 minutes and cost £200 per person. We will explain the costs before you decide whether you would like to proceed. How many sessions will we need? Every family is different. Some people reach an agreement quickly, while others need several sessions. The number of sessions will depend on what you need to discuss and the complexity of your circumstances. on average it is around 3-5 sessions.